Men! Your lover wants an orgasm during your
lovemaking!
Though she may not want an orgasm every time
you make love, she certainly isn't going to be too pleased if sex ends when
you've ejaculated, rolled over and gone to sleep! The best way to ensure her
sexually contentment is to make sure she's had an orgasm before you come.
There are several sexual positions which are more likely to make this happen.
So, without further ado, here's our suggested list of sex positions that will
let her get the pleasure she craves, while also making sure you don't miss out
on your orgasm!
First of all, if you haven't tried the woman on top position, then check it
out! Many women like being uppermost when it comes to enjoying sex - it's a
position that allows them to move in the way that gives them the greatest
pleasure, whether that's through clitoral stimulation or G spot stimulation.
She can move around much more in this position, and because she's in charge of
her movements, she's likely to get orgasmic satisfaction. She can either rub
her clitoris against the shaft of your penisgrind it against your body, or
lean back or forwards so that her G spot gets the exact pressure it needs to
get her to orgasm. If you can last long enough before you ejaculate, this is
the sex position that gives her the greatest chance of attaining orgasm during
sexual intercourse.
If she wants to increase the sensations in her vagina, she can use her PC
muscles to squeeze your penis: that will increase your pleasure, and it will
certainly increase the pressure on her G spot - and most likely increase the
chances of her having an orgasm. (Female ejaculation is the subject of another
article - but basically, if her G spot is stimulated for long enough, and in
the right way, when she reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands
around her urethra will squirt out during her orgasmic contractions.)
And one other advantage of woman on top sex is that you can see her breasts,
and caress them as she rides your penis. Of course, if she's facing away from
you, then you have the pleasure of watching her buttocks as she moves. But a
lot of men find this position, (when she faces away from the man),
uncomfortable because it bends the penis too much.
And what next? Well, the good ol' missionary position. But before you groan,
think again. Many women love missionary position sex, because it allows for
those deep moments of intimacy and connection that women adore. And men like
the position too! Sex in the man on top position, with her legs bent upwards,
her knees near her chest, allows for deep penetration and lots of loving
feeling. What's more, if you have a penis that curves upwards when it's erect,
as many do, then sex in the man on top position will allow your penis to
thrust against her G spot as you make love. Combine this with a little
clitoral play, perhaps by placing a vibrator between you both as you make
love, and you have the greatest chance of her achieving orgasm!
As a refinement, you can stop thrusting your hips, and move your hips in a
circular pattern. The penis moves in a very satisfying way in the vagina! This
sex position is called Churning The Butter in Tantric sex, and it can send her
into multiple, ongoing orgasm. Another variation of man on top sex is to try
eight shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. The shallow thrust should just
shimmer against her G spot, so don't go more than a few centimetres into her
vagina when you try this routine.
Another great idea for her to achieve orgasm is to have her sitting on a table
or, alternatively, any other surface where you can enter her vagina as you
stand in front of her with her legs apart. making love in this position is
great because you can thrust into her while you kiss and hold each other. To
increase the chances of her reaching orgasm, you can give her a little extra
clitoral stimulation. In any case, in this position your regular thrusting may
catch her G spot in the way needed to bring her to a rapid climax. It's also a
lot more exciting to be having sex in an unusual position and out of the
bedroom. The added excitement of this can help take you both to a quicker and
more powerful climax.
Next, there's a very gentle and easy sex position known as the "spoons"
position. She lies on her side with her back towards you, while you enter her
from behind. This is a very easy sex position to get into, especially if she
lifts her upper leg slightly while you push into her. The best thing about
this sex positions is how good it feels - for both of you. You can reach
around her, caress her breasts, and kiss back, while she (or you) can play
with her clitoris. Another great variation of this position is the chance to
make love on your sides while you face each other.
The best way to get into the facing side by side sex position is by starting
from the man on top, ask her to lift her knees towards her chest and then roll
over onto your sides (agree which way you're going first!)). You can keep
going for much longer in this position before you come, as there's much less
pressure on your erection. And, with the right attention, and perhaps a
helping rub on or around her clitoris, she will reach orgasm before you do, so
you can have the pleasure of being triggered into your own orgasm by feeling
her coming around your penis inside her vagina.
And lastly, what about the thrill of doggy style sex? This primal position is
many men's favorite position for sex, being so rude and raunchy, and it
usually makes men come quite quickly. But many like it too, and there are
plenty of reasons why. It allows deep penetration, it allows her to express
her sexuality to the full, letting her thrust and ride her man as she wishes,
and, above all, it hits her G spot! Rear entry sex is very primal, especially
if you hold her hips and guide her movements. If she raises or lowers her
hips, you'll get a lot of variation in sensation - so you can find the exact
position that gives you both the greatest pleasure.
Before we move on, let me remind you that
many women have trouble reaching orgasm during intercourse. There are ways you
can deal with this, and reach orgasm
during intercourse. If you are a woman who has not yet had an orgasm, then
this website may be helpful in helping you to
become orgasmic especially if you
are pre-orgasmic. For men who have difficulty reaching orgasm and ejaculating
during sex, there are self-help programs of treatment for
delayed ejaculation and
the treatment of delayed
ejaculation which can have you fully orgasmic and ejaculating normally
during sex in no time.
There you are, then: a series of sexual positions which give you a chance of
the woman's orgasm during sex. But if you're the man, and these positions
don't help her reach orgasm on their own, don't worry. Make sure sure she has
her orgasm from oral sex or masturbation before you enter her, and you'll both
be able to enjoy sex to the full. If however, you would like to know
how to
prevent premature ejaculation problem, then you can learn to last longer
in bed here, and if you have an erection problem, then you can find out about
all the ways to
overcome erection problems and
erectile dysfunction.
here.
Orgasm during intercourse feels great, but remember there are plenty of other
ways of getting sexual satisfaction!
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